Quotes

  • Hitting a curve ball #TheRunningWriter


    Today I’m sitting on my stationary bike, pedaling away, coming to terms with the fact that I might be spending more time than I’d like on this thing.

    I’d rather be out on my trails, pounding up those wicked hills, taking in the amazing scenery, and spending time with my friends. But sometimes things don’t go as planned.

    Sure. I’d had plans to run the canyon next month with my sweet hubby, I’d had plans to race the four peaks in November…but sometimes life throws you curve balls. Rather unpleasant and painful ones. How do you handle those unexpected obstacles?

    If I had a sure-fire answer I’d be set for life, right? All I can tell you is how I deal with it – and maybe you can share your secrets with me as well.

    First: Focus on things to be thankful for. Doing that helps remind me that I am still truly blessed. Not every single aspect of my life is bad. When I’m struggling, the darkness of injury can spread into every aspect of every day–if I let it. Searching out, on a daily basis, one or two positive things in my life helps combat that.

    Second: Find a way to still do something you love. Besides writing novels, exercise is my thing. And since injury might be altering my preferred form of exercise (trail running) I’ll find some form of exercise I can do: stationary biking, lifting upper body, aqua jogging, and working on my core strength. I’ll try to keep to my schedule of rising early and doing my exercise in the mornings still, too. It’d be easy to just say “Screw it, I’m injured I’m not doing anything.” But part of recovery is mental health, too, so keeping with daily exercise, even if it’s less than I’m used to, can help.

    Finally: Keep the faith. I trust all things work out in the end; it’s just the time in between that gets a little challenging. Some people call it Fate, Universe, whatever. I call it faith in God’s plan and timing. Surrounding myself with positive & encouraging people will help.

    How do you handle obstacles that knock you off your feet?

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  • The day is yours #TheRunningWriter


    Today is going to be great. And it’s going to be great no matter what tries to make me stumble.

    I am strong.

    I am smart.

    I am worthy.

    Say those with me.

    I am strong.

    I am smart.

    I am worthy.

    Because you are!!

    Make it a great day, my friends. You are loved.

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  • Ready or not #The RunningWriter


    I’m ready for today. Are you?

    It’s a matter of perspective and, this morning, I choose to have a great day today.

    No matter what’s thrown at me, I will handle it.

    So will you.

    Let’s do this, my friends. You and me, together, we will conquer this day.

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  • Stop. Breathe. Refocus. #TheRunningWriter


    Mondays are hard for some people. Facing an uncertain job, jumping into the hustle-bustle of appointments and obligations, or dealing with scary health or life obstacles littering your path.

    When I’m getting overwhelmed or scared I can get a bit obsessive on the bad things. I can view a day through, “Okay, what bad thing is going to happen today?” glasses.

    But if I do that, then I’m looking for the bad things to happen.

    Stop. Breathe. Refocus.

    You are strong and you are capable. No matter what this Monday, or even the next hour, brings you, you will face it.

    You will get through it.

    You will be stronger for it.

    So go out there and make it a great day.

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  • Things change and that’s ok. #TheRunningWriter


    You’ve heard the phrase, “The only thing constant in life is change.”

    Sometimes I hate that phrase. How ’bout you?

    I’m a creature of habit. I find security in consistency. I can handle change, be adaptable. I would just rather not. LOL.

    What I’ve learned over the years as a writer and runner is that circumstances change. Lives change.

    I may spend day in and day out with writing or running friends, and then over time our path directions change. No hard feelings. No anger.

    And when we meet up again, maybe even get to start hanging out again, it’s all good no hard feelings. No anger.

    Don’t take change personal. While it might be about you, more than likely it’s not. It’s just life circumstances.

    And if it is about you, go with it. Be open to feedback. Grow from it. Don’t get stuck in it. And don’t hate because of it.

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