Grudges are a bunch of garbage.
Grudges are like carrying a big bag of nasty garbage around. It’s heavy, takes up one of your hands so you’re working at half capacity, and it’ll start to rot, stinking up everything around it.
If you think about it, do you enjoy being around someone who is always barking about something they’re angry about? At first it’s fine, because everyone needs to vent frustrations once in a while. But day after day, barking about the same thing over and over—it gets to be too much.
The “stink” of the garbage you’re carrying will permeate everything and everyone around you.
Don’t give it that power. The only thing carrying a grudge around does is hurts is you.
So drop that bag of junk you’re carrying and move on.
Live life, my friends.